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Isis' Message of the Day -
God Said:
"In all actions and reactions, people are revealing themselves. They are not revealing you. When others
reveal hostility, they are directing it to themselves. Ultimately, this is how it is. They are trying to get rid of the hostility
they carry by putting it on you. By the same token, when you see their swords of anger as directed at you, even as they evidently
are pointed at you, then you also are revealing yourself and your own lack of self-love."
* From Heavenletters™ September
4, 2011 * Copyright1999-2011 * HEAVEN #3936 *
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I AM ISIS a "Spiritual Warrior of the Light."
In my hand I hold the Sword of Truth.
I wish you Joy, Love & Peace,
~ Lady of the Light ~
 Have Your Children Rejected You?by Jennifer Hoffman
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Some of the most difficult questions I hear from parents ask when their children will
speak to them again because they have not been in communication for months or years. Some children completely reject their
parents, without giving reasons or explanation and refuse to have any interaction with them. This is actually happening to
me too, with one of my children and it's heartbreaking and difficult but it's also their choice and I need to honor and respect
it. And if this is what is happening with your children, this may be your solution too, at least for now.
There are reasons why our children feel that they can reject us and one has to do with
the fact that we love them and they know it. They know that eventually they can come back and make amends and our love for
them will still be there. The other has to do with their spiritual growth. Since they can see us as powerful and accomplished,
even if we don't feel that way, they are afraid that they stand in our shadow and are threatened by our power. Instead of
talking to us about it and finding a positive solution, they get rid of the light which they think overshadows them.
Of course that doesn't make us feel any better and it is not the truth, but it is their
truth, what they believe and we have to accept and honor it. Instead of feeling sad and rejected, we need to get on with our
life and let them move on with theirs. They are not completely gone, just out of the picture for the moment. It is not a very
good or powerful way to be but it is what they are capable of. Everyone, including our children, act from the place where
they feel most powerful. And sometimes they feel that they can express their power by rejecting us.
And they can also have secret resentments and anger, which is the case with my child,
that they do not want to share. In time this will be revealed and a new relationship can begin. Your child's rejection of
you is a reflection of their opinion of themselves, not their opinion of you. And one day they will call or write as though
nothing happened and you can have a relationship with them again. Please make sure they understand that rejection is not an
acceptable behavior and that they cannot hurt you, just because they know you love them, and expect you to take it with a
smile. Setting boundaries for behavior is just as important when they're 2 as when they're 32. So accept their choice, move
on in spite of your heartbreak, create your joyful life and when they're ready, they will be knocking on your door again,
wanting to reconnect.
Article Copyright ©2011 by Jennifer Hoffman. All rights reserved.
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