Will U Love Me?

Everyone who is in our care zone has needs that we have agreed to meet while we also hope that they will meet our needs. Whether we care for them (by being their caretaker) or care about them (where we are more detached), we are actively seeking something from those in our care zone. In short, we want them to love us, to show us that we are valued, accepted and appreciated. We want our participation in their life to mean something to be so helpful and valuable that they will love us. And with all of these relationships there is a silent question, 'Will you love me?'

What are we willing to do for love? Quite a bit, especially if we do not have a firm foundation of self love. We will sacrifice our time, energy and physical, mental, emotional and spiritual resources to get the love we need from others. All of the sacrifices we make for others, especially those we are willing to go out of our way for, are seeking love as their reward. What we say to these people is if "I do all of these things for you, will you love me?" The love we seek is more than romantic, it is the validation that we need of our power, worthiness and also of our healing.

All of the people in our care zone are not all needy and helpless (but they could be). There is a difference between those we care for and care about. The people we care for are those we want to help in any way possible because we see their need for healing, which resonates with our own healing needs. So we feel that if we can heal them, we can be healed too. Isn't it easier to heal someone else and get that confirmation than it is to heal ourselves?

But what happens when we try to heal someone else? We are stepping into forbidden territory because while we can extend healing opportunities, we are powerless when it comes to healing others. And the more we try, the more frustrated we become. And our desire for love is met with denial because we ask for love from people who cannot or will not give it to us. What's the solution? Realizing that the need for healing we see in others is our own healing calling out to us. What can we do to heal ourselves? The love we seek from others cannot be fulfilled until we love ourselves. And the requests for love we give to those in our care zone will be filled when we stop trying to look outside ourselves for the love and light that we have within us.

Jennifer Hoffman is an intuitive, spiritual healer, mentor, teacher and author. She also channels the energy of the Archangel Uriel. Jennifer has helped many people through the Shift through her unique insights and counsel, facilitating their healing journey. Jennifer is the founder of www.urielheals.com, an on-line spiritual healing and growth center and dedicated to the messages and teachings of Archangel Uriel. Information about Jennifer's books, on-line seminars and services is available at her websites, or email healing@urielheals.com for information. *


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