Various Kinds of Love

I am, Helen.
There are various kinds of love existing between humans and also between spirits and humans, each having its source in different conditions of fact and in varying causes. Of all these loves, only one is or can be the true and eternal one. The love of husband and wife is a beautiful thing, and may exist during the life on earth and bring much happiness to its possessors even though that love is temporary, and in the workings of the law of attraction in the spirit life, may entirely cease its existence and become forgotten. And so, I may state, will be the destiny of the paternal, maternal, brotherly and sisterly love. All these are based upon causes or conditions that are merely temporary – that is, may last during time and for a more or less longer period in eternity, but finally must end.
These loves, as I understand, are provisions of God which are necessary to enable mankind to work out their progress through the human life in the way that will produce the greatest harmony and happiness among mortals as they contend with the difficulties, cares, and disappointments of the earth life. In the spirit world, there is no need for these loves, for a greater bond of affection is provided and is created or brought into operation by the great law of attraction, which causes the merely personal relationship that may have existed between spirits when inhabiting the earthly forms, to cease and to be forgotten. This law of attraction is based upon the condition of the soul, whether that soul possesses the development created by the Divine Love or only that created by the purification of the natural love.
In the early stages in the spirit life, the conditions of the earth life may remain for a time because the spirit's state of soul, desires and affections may continue to be as they were when on earth. As stagnation is not a quality of the soul in spirit life, these things which may have bound the humans together in the relationship mentioned do not long continue as they were, as there is no way of avoiding the workings of this law and its results. In order for this state to continue any great length of time, it would be necessary that all the spirits bound by these affections or conditions should remain without change in their souls, and that rarely happens. For in our world, the individual becomes the individual in fact, and the real is apparent and spirits see one another face to face, and pretense or effort to hide the true condition of love or affection, or want of the same, becomes futile; so that, as is the real state of the spirit, so is his relationship to other spirits.
Again, this law of attraction operates in other directions than that of determining the mere affections. Man's mental conditions and aspirations are determining factors in establishing relationships among themselves. When men become spirits, they are at the time of transition, and for a longer or shorter period afterwards, the possessors of the same knowledge and aspirations as they were immediately preceding their passage, with this difference: that to a more or less extent this knowledge and these aspirations, when in spirit life, are made apparent to others, not necessarily in words and professions, but by the power of seeing. Which all but the very depraved spirits possess. So that, pretense and feigning being absent or of no avail, these spirits, under the law attract those affections arising not from their human relationships which then cease to bind these spirits. The temporary love has fulfilled its mission and object, and to continue to exist under the circumstances mentioned would work injury and retardation to the progress of these spirits, no matter what may be the nature or cause of that progress.
Now, while what I have said is all true, there is another provision of the Father's law designed for the happiness of men while mortals that causes the love arising from the human relationship to continue with the spirit, so long as the object of that love continues in the flesh. No matter what the progress of that spirit may be or what its attractions are, yet it continues to love the mortal during his earthly career, and to watch over and help him, even though this love which once existed for other mortals in the same relationship, and who have passed to spirit life, may have ended and been forgotten. This human love is subject to change and death, and those of earth life who console themselves with the thought that when they pass to spirit life they will meet their loved ones who have gone before, never to part again, will be disappointed, but not long distressed, for they will soon thereafter learn and experience the workings of the great law of attraction, and in that experience will be happy.
But there is another and differing love, not of the temporal, but of the everlasting, in its nature, and all humans have it, though probably unaware of the fact, but which at some period – and this may be for some time in eternity they will become conscious of, and then never deprived of, for it is the perfect fulfillment of this law of attraction. I mean the soulmate love, of which I have written you so often. It was born before any man appeared in the flesh, and was a part of his very soul's creation, and of which he could never be deprived, though so often does it lie dormant in the souls and consciousness of man. I and others have written you as to how when the souls of men were created by the Father, these souls were made male and female, though constituting only the one soul – two in one, the perfect one. And with their creation was bestowed upon them a love – not two loves, but only one – which was possessed equally by each part of the complete soul, and which will always remain one in its complete workings, although these two parts of the soul have to be, and are, separated in their incarnation in the human body. Incarnation is for the purpose of giving the male and the female parts of the one soul a separate individuality, without severing or disuniting this love, which through all eternity binds together these two parts as one.
The love of which I have first spoken is the love for time only; the soulmate love is the love for all eternity. This great love which requires that at some stage in eternity these two parts of the one soul shall become one again should be one of the most convincing proofs that all men, sooner or later, will come into harmony with the will of the Father and with the laws creating such souls. The fundamental law of the universe is that all things shall come into harmony with the will of the Father. As the hells and all that they comprehend are out of such harmony, men may believe that in the ultimate working out of this law, no soul will remain in the hells or in the condition or state of existence that primarily makes the hells, but that all souls in their perfected union will become inhabitants of either the Spiritual or the Celestial Heavens.
Further, I must say, as you have been told before, that this soulmate love is the only love that can have a separate and individual existence in the Celestial Heavens, where the Divine Love exists to the exclusion of every other love, save the soulmate love. The more the spirits the united two in one -– possess the Divine Love, the greater will be their possession of this soulmate love.
As you know, I am your soulmate and come to you so often in my love, and you realize the fact and respond, and at times are very happy. You have experienced on several occasions the depth and yearnings of my love to such an extent that your soul has come to me in my spirit world and enjoyed moments of unspeakable bliss; and as you may not know, left me with protestations against its return to your mortal body. If my love had not been wise, as well as intense and wonderfully absorbing, your protests would have been heeded and you would have remained with me to enjoy the happiness which can be yours only when you come to the spirit world to find your home everlasting.
It has been said that the man in love is a fool, and that may be true in regard to the merely human love, but as to this soulmate love the more of it we possess the wiser we become and correspondingly happy.
I cannot tell you the depth and height and wonders of my love, and only say that it fulfills to the uttermost the great law of attraction, there is nothing, save the Divine Love, in all the universe of being that can excel it or take its place, or make two souls so united that even death cannot sever it.
I will be with you as long as you continue to live on earth in all the fullness of my love, and when the time of your passing comes, I will be present. So much love will be around you that you will forget the dying and the awakening and know only that your soulmate is with you telling you of love, happiness, and the beauties of the life that will be yours, and showing you to a large degree how splendid and heavenly this love can make a spirit that possesses the Divine Love, also.
Well, dear, Baby is here and says she has read what I have written and is so glad that you have me for your soulmate. She is very happy and is growing all the time in beauty and in the possession of the Father's Love. She so wants you to seek more and more for this Love, and says, "How rich Daddy is to have the soulmate love of my beautiful mother and the certainty of the great Love of the Father, if he will only seek for it. In addition, which may not count for much, he has the love of his own Baby, who is now so happy."
Mary says that I must not neglect to say that she is here also, and has read my message with great pleasure. She wants me to tell the Dr. that if he will only substitute himself in your place, and her in my place, and read the letter, he will know something of her love for him. That he is her soulmate and can never be another's, and she is with him so very often trying to impress him with her presence and love.
Well dear, you have written a great deal and I will stop. I am so glad that I could write.
Good night, my dear Ned.
Your own true and loving,
Helen


				*Various Kinds of Love*