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 The Father Contractby Jennifer Hoffman
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Like the mother contract, the father contract is a complex soul agreement for energetic
empowerment, to enable a specific level of soul growth and to heal karma. The emotional expectations we have of the father
mirror those we have of Source, to take care of and provide for us, which is why abandonment, neglect, emotional and physical
abuse and rejection are so often part of our father contracts. Through our fathers we learn about our power, resolve issues
with male energy, create balance with our male/female aspects, heal the karma of domination and control and learn emotional
balance and boundaries. And we often learn it through the most difficult, cruel and challenging teachers.
Father contracts are lessons in learning to give and receive unconditional love for both
father and child. Many fathers have to work through guilt and shame associated with being warriors and the trauma of war,
death and destruction. Many have dominated and controlled others. Some have died traumatically and others have been instigators
of pain and suffering and experience the pain they inflicted on others. Many become fathers to fulfill father contracts they
could not complete in other lifetimes, or to avenge or atone for other lifetimes. In some ways the father contract is hard
because it involves overcoming and transforming ancient male energy paradigms and integrate emotions into an energy that has
been, historically, non-emotional.
The expectations of the father as a loving, emotionally and physically supportive presence
is a detrimental factor in the father contract because they blind us to the true reason for becoming a father, which is to
teach about power and balance male energies. Without a high level of spiritual understanding, this can become an experience
of domination, control and abuse. Destructive father relationships happen when the father is unaware that it is by giving
unconditional love that it is also received and that they are worthy of that love, no matter what has happened in other lifetimes.
They either reject or acknowledge the emotional aspects of this contract and their behavior reflects that.
Until the recent generation, fathers are seen as being responsible for financial support
andthey were emotionally disconnected. Today's fathers have changed that and are wonderfully supportive parents who are learning,
through their children, emotional balance and love, things they may not have experienced with their own fathers. We are changing
the paradigm of the father contract to a more balanced experience that allows fathers to know the love they have sought in
many incarnations. And it is changing the world as it creates empowered and energetically balanced children who see the best
aspects of male and female and who are learning wholeness as well as helping their fathers heal lifetimes of trauma.
Copyright © 2012 by Jennifer Hoffman and Enlightening Life OmniMedia, Inc. All
Rights Reserved. *
About the author
Jennifer Hoffman is an intuitive, spiritual healer, mentor, teacher and author.
She also channels the energy of the Archangel Uriel. Jennifer has helped many people through the Shift through her unique
insights and counsel, facilitating their healing journey. Jennifer is the founder of www.urielheals.com, an on-line spiritual healing and growth center and dedicated to the messages and teachings of Archangel
Uriel. Information about Jennifer's books, on-line seminars and services is available at her websites, or emailhealing@urielheals.com for information. * Enlightening
Life www.enlighteninglife.com * email:Support@enlighteninglife.com * Uriel Heals | Enlightening Life OmniMedia, Inc. | PO Box7076 | Lee's Summit | MO | 64064 *
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