Marriage Channeled Tobias

< Creator 8QA > In a sense you are very correct in this. (chuckling, struggling with the proper structure of the answer) We are treading on thin ice here! We will say politically - in deference to Cauldre - that indeed your relationships will change. At its very core, the relationships of a male to a female originate in the old energy. They are indeed based in duality. It is duality to say, "We will commit to each other no matter how happy or miserable we are. We are here to learn of this balance of this thing called duality."
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In the new energy, the way relationships are viewed will change. You will not feel the need to bind another in the institution of marriage. You will be able to live happily with each other without the old contracts. Or, you may chose to live happily by yourself. You will not need another person to be complete. There will also be some who will live happily together in groups but yet maintain their own individuality.
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This may challenge some of you based on your belief systems of what is right and wrong. We ask again that you stand behind the short wall and observe what is truly happening. (chuckling) And Cauldre tells us this was a very political answer to your question! (audience laughter)
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< Creator 11 > The very moment Spirit even contemplated looking within, even contemplated taking a look in the mirror at Self, what had been one became two. God now had the ability to look at Self. What had been a singular energy in the Kingdom now became the King and the Queen. It became what you would call a "male" energy and a "female" energy. And there was a "marriage" between the two. There was still unity, there was still oneness. But now, because Spirit even thought of looking within and contemplating Self, it instantly created a duality of sorts, different than what you have here on Earth, but it created two energies that we call the King and the Queen, the Mother and the Father.
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< Ascension 2QA > Allow them to fall. It is simple. Why do you hold on so much to something that does not serve you or your partner anymore? What rule says that a marriage must last forever? In your past lives, you were given one partner to marry, and you must stay with them forever. That was not much fun in some cases. Now if you understand that your marriage is not working, let it go. A funny thing happens when you let it go. It is free to be all that it is or nothing at all. Stop trying to make it into something that is artificial, that doesn't work. We understand that it is painful at first to release something. You are, in a sense, releasing patterns of the past, patterns of the old energy. And we know you love this person at the deepest level, but in the deepest form of love, let them go. Let them go, and let yourself go. You may be surprised that how letting them go truly brings them back to you, but in the new energy and with clean love.
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< Ascension 4QA > This is one area that is receiving the most amount of energy and the most amount of transformation right now, but one that causes the most concern for humans. You have been taught that there is a ceremony that takes place. You have been taught that there are certain rules that you must abide by. Relationships and marriages, all of this… this is one of the areas that is causing the largest amount of guilt within humans at this time.
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In a sense, you can look at marriage as one of the original ceremonies of duality. You take a man and you take a woman - duality - and put them together and bind them, tie them together and make them stay together. Some of your churches do not even allow you to leave, claiming God will be upset if you do! What type of hell is that, if you are not happy? (audience laughter) It doesn’t even make sense to us that you would have to be with someone that you did not so much like any more.
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Now, the greatest thing you can do with relationships right now is to release, to be free, then to allow them to come back together in a new expression. And, if it is not your choice to leave, honor the partner who you have chosen to be with. But, release them, for it is not making you well, and it is not making them well if you are not happy.
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In the New Energy there will be less relationships for a period of time. Your first relationship will be with yourself. We told you it would be lonely at times. You are seeking to become integrated with Self. It is difficult to do in some cases when there is a partner that does not so much understand your process. In the New Energy, the relationships will be with Self for a period of time.
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And, when the new relationships develop with other people, there will not be so many rules. They will be more open. They will be based in trust, rather than in law. They will be based in love, rather than in rules and regulations. It may be, dear friends, that you have a number of relationships at one time. It may be that your relationships with those of the same sex become less inhibited, and you are not so fearful. They will become more open, because you will be communicating with your partner in a new language.
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It is not about duality. There is a new Language of Ah that allows you to understand your partner and their divinity, and they to understand you and your divinity. Why would you need rules? Why would you need contracts or karma, when you are operating at this very high level of love and integrity?
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Relationships are one of the first casualties of the New Energy. This is truth, because relationships with a male and female were created and are grounded in so much old duality. It was one of the original expressions of duality.
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< Ascension 4QA > Speaking of which, we have talked to you in our recent gatherings and said that the real problems on Earth at this time are not even about religions battling with religions, or countries against countries. The real core energy issue is about the imbalance of male and female. Now, perhaps you will understand why relationships are the first casualty. But, they also have the greatest potential for new consciousness in this New Energy.
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< Ascension 8 > From this union, and from this to-be-discovered love between the King and the Queen, you were birthed. You were birthed from an energy that was part of the King and Queen, but yet different and separate. You, the creation of Spirit, went forth outside of the First Circle. That in itself is amazing! For, how can you go outside of All That Was? How can you go outside of a circle that contained all of the known energy and had the ability to expand itself within that circle? These are all things we will address, all fascinating issues.
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< Ascension sp > In the new understanding of love the elements of duality come together in a dance. In the new understanding of love there is no mirror anymore from you to the outside, or from you to yourself. In the new understanding of love, there is a marriage that takes place. And, it is within you. It is all of those elements that are you. It is the light and the dark joining together as a new type of illumination. It is not light like what you have thought of before. And it is not the void of darkness. It is a new illumination.
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< Ascension sp > In the new understanding of love, there is a marriage of the elements. These elements have always been there. In a sense, they were opposing each other, bumping into each other. This action transformed energy from one state to another. But, it was not new energy. It was only the transofmration of existing energy. In the new understanding of love that is coming into you, there is something new being created. It is no longer simply a transformation of energy from one form of consciousness to the other. The new understanding of love IS New Energy.
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< Ascension spQA > Understand that you are more sensitive than ever in this New Energy. You are opening up right now. You are feeling the sadness that Metatron spoke of earlier, a sadness brought in by the winds of change - both literal and figurative winds - that are upon the face of Earth right now. You are feeling others' suffering and pain. You are taking it as your own in so many cases. You are feeling the burdens of others. Understand what it is, and honor it, but understand, dear ones, that it does not necessarily come from you.
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You are also riding many cycles within yourself, ups and downs. They are becoming more intense and more frequent. It is the energies of duality, seemingly going out of phase, because, in a sense, that is literally what they are doing. Light and dark were always phased appropriately. Now they are going out of phase. You will feel these dips. You will feel the peaks also. They are going out of phase in order to realign in this new marriage that we spoke of earlier. In doing so, you are creating a New Energy.
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First go within to know if this sadness, is coming from you or from the outside. If it is coming from you, understand that it is part of a process. Understand that the lows are helping to build a momentum to move through this energetic shift, to move you into the New Energy.
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< e2012 6 > How many online have been divorced? More than once? More than twice? Oh keep going. Okay. More than five times? So you got married for love. Well, actually, you didn’t at all. Most of you did not get married for love. It was karma. You’d been together before. You had things to work out and experience together. So you came back together. You met each other. “Oh! I know you! You must be my soul mate!” No, you’ve just been together before. You had stuff to work out. Maybe you could do it this lifetime.
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< e2012 6 > True love will never be found in another person until you find it in yourself. You’ll never have a partnership with anyone else that’s healthy and balanced until you have it with yourself. Then every relationship will be different. They won’t be feeding. They won’t be used to balance your masculine or feminine side or balance whatever. You’ll never select a partner again to complete something within yourself.
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				*Marriage Channeled Tobias*