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MARY MAGDALENE: Hello beloved. Yes, I am ready to share more with you. I wish to expand on the
topic of helping children, as I’m aware that a number of people have asked about this. There is more I wish to say about
this. People want to know how they can help the children of today to become strong spiritually.
What can the adults do to support them the most? It’s important to understand that at
this time humanity is involved in the ascension process, which means that you’re in the midst of ascending from the
third dimension to the fourth dimension. This is an enormous shift for humans and is taking place very quickly relative to
how these types of changes usually occur. Ascension is the spiritual focus for humans at this time. Those who are spiritually
progressive and sensitive are aware of this, yet it tends to be the minority of your global population who are conscious of
this event. That doesn’t make it any less real, however. Spiritually speaking, the greatest
thing you can give to children is to help them in this very process. As I’ve said before, this will necessarily involve
you being involved in the process yourself, for children learn primarily at the nonverbal level through copying and adapting
to what is being modeled to them. One of the primary characteristics of the third dimension
is that it is a place where power is used to get what you sense you need or want. This might be called “force”
or “coercion” or “overpowering others,” because most often it is power used at the expense of others.
This is the old model of authority, where those at the top have power and those below have relinquished their power. It is
assumed that those with power will be supported, taken care of, and even survive, while those without power may or may not
be supported, taken care of, or even survive. This creates great stress in yourself and
in your society. It is a structure that inherently assumes some will not be taken care of while some will. So there is struggle
and competition to be one of the ones who will be taken care or even survive. All of this is
learned at an extremely young age by children, because most parents or adult caregivers use power and authority to get children
to do what they want. Even when adults are acting in ways that they perceive are best for the children, they very often still
use power modalities to get the children to comply. This is primarily what adults can
do to make the biggest difference in terms of helping children to evolve spiritually. It will also do the most to change your
world altogether. Stop teaching children, through your example, that the world functions on the basis of power. Stop using
power to get children to do what you want. This means that adults must stop giving commands
or orders to children. They must stop using volume as a tool of force. They must stop using rewards and punishments to enforce
their authority. However, I do not recommend that parents simply let children do whatever they
want. That would be depriving children of your wisdom, support, help, and intelligence, which they absolutely need. They need
your guidance and support. But is not necessary to use force and power and authority to bring your guidance and support to
children. “How do I do this?” you might be asking. What you must do is a very different
process of being transparent with children about yourself. You must show children your feelings and the inner divine qualities
that are the source of those feelings. Then you can make requests of the child based on your feelings and inner divine qualities.
This is the path of heart-connection with your children. You may not believe this will work, if you are deeply entrenched
in the belief that force and power are necessary. But I tell you that it does work. Children love you. They also know that
they depend on you. You can turn to their love and care rather than force. It is up to you. Children
will trust this process if you also show care for their feelings and the inner divine qualities that are at the source of
those feelings. When a child is upset, do not immediately go into force mode of trying to fix and overpower the upset. Instead,
stay calm yourself. Breathe. Notice what you’re feeling and the inner divine qualities you’re having. Connect
with your heart first, before you respond to the child. Then, after you’re heart-connected,
make a guess of what you think is going on with the child and then ask if your guess is right. For example, you might ask,
“Are you frustrated because you want to play right now?” The feeling is frustrated and the inner divine quality
it’s sourcing out of is “play.” Keep guessing until you’ve connected with the child’s heart.
You will sense when that connection has happened. Then share with the child what your feelings
and inner divine qualities are. For example you might say, “I’m feeling frustrated, too, because I’m wanting
to be productive right now in getting dinner ready.” At this point there should be a sense of connection between the
two of you. If there isn’t you probably haven’t fully connected with the child’s feelings and the inner
divine qualities that are at the source of those feelings. The child won’t have space to receive you and hear what’s
going on with you until you’ve first connected with them and what’s going on with them. This is an example of connecting at the heart, instead of using force. Once that heart-connection is made, then you
can move into thinking of possible solutions that you both could agree to and feel at peace with. Then you’re working
together rather than against each other. This is co-creation. This is how it can happen. I
hope this has been helpful to you. It is very real and very practical. Parents have the greatest opportunity for making this
change with children. If parents raise children in this way, then the children won’t have to unlearn their previous
training to learn how to relate from their hearts as adults. This is a tremendous advantage that you can give to children. I love you and I support you most fully in creating a world that is heart-founded rather than
founded on force. I AM Mary Magdalene
You come from love as love itself
in order to be love that expresses itself. And when your days on Earth this time around are done, you are returned to the
love from which you came. Love expresses itself. It must. Love is like that. Love likes to shine. Love does not like to be
pushed down, squeezed, flattened etc. Love is love. A flower loves so much, it pushes its way up through soil joyously. Such
is the love flowers give. NOVEMBER 9, 2014 We of the Arcturian Group welcome all to this message presented with love for the purpose of a greater knowledge
and understanding of truth. We observe many beginning to question their personal belief systems which indicates clearing within
the mental body. All bodies are in the process of clearing. You are not just a physical body, that which is seen with human
eyes, but are also etheric, emotional, mental, and spiritual bodies which constitute your energy field. The Light emanating
from earth is increasing daily, you are creating change even if it does not seem that way at this moment. At this time you are clearing all bodies
of obsolete and outgrown energies accumulated through lifetimes lived in density and ignorance and are replacing them with
frequencies of Light and truth. Beliefs and concepts based in duality and separation are never real for they have no spiritual
law to support them, and therefore must be let go and cleared in order to move into the higher dimensional energies--this
is ascension. An intention to
evolve is all that is required. You do not need to know the specifics of what is clearing for your higher self is directing
what is needed as you are ready. Issues long thought to be resolved, may suddenly reappear as clearings are often done in
layers, taking place as you are spiritually ready. When you experience emotional or physical distress for no apparent reason,
or when you seriously begin to question life long beliefs, remember what you know about clearing. We wish to speak of spiritual completeness. On earth, mankind
takes for granted that all things will come to some sort of completion, meaning that all parts eventually come together either
for good or for bad. Completeness in the spiritual sense means the attainment of that state of consciousness which recognizes
self (SELF) to be complete and whole. The process is a journey that continues well into the higher dimensions. Beings of Light
are simply those who know who they are, they are awake and reflect this in their energy fields. All are formed of Divine Consciousness and therefore carry
within the qualities of Divine Consciousness--wholeness, completeness etc. The degree of completeness manifesting outwardly
is in direct proportion to an individual's realization (not intellectual knowledge) of this truth and will reflect what constitutes
completeness for the individual. There is no one completeness for everyone. Society, churches, leaders, governments, experts,
and family/friends all have varying concepts of how things must be in order to be correct. This is false as wholeness and
completeness for one may not be wholeness and completeness for another. When individuals strive to intuit what is right for
them and not what may be being pushed on them, they will discover a truer sense of freedom. Completeness and wholeness is the birthright of every soul,
but must become the state of consciousness in order to be experienced. This is the evolutionary journey. To pretend wholeness
and completeness without having attained a consciousness of it is to stick ones head in the sand. Never deny the human difficulties,
but at the same time learn to not give them power they do not have. Often those who come to know truth intellectually, make
the mistake of believing that it is spiritual to stand in the presence of some discord and doing nothing while shouting to
self or others; " It is all illusion." The purpose of earth experiences is to awaken by learning through practice and study to rise above appearances.
As you come to know ever more deeply that outer appearances (the good ones as well as the bad) are images formed from a world
consciousness of duality and separation, you begin also to understand that there is no law other than belief holding them
there. It is at this point that the "absolutist" may lose his way, trying to live a state of consciousness not yet attained.
In the human scene the starving baby is real and needs assistance even though in reality starvation has no law to support
it (wholeness and completeness is the law), but to simply do nothing while shouting that all is illusion, is very human. Evolving into a consciousness of completeness
is the evolutionary journey and is not without "bloody footsteps" along the way. Those who seem to be experiencing the spiritual
fruits of completeness in their daily living have probably done the work in other lifetimes, for all must make this journey,
although not all choose to do it on earth. There are many who have never incarnated on earth, choosing instead to evolve on
other planets. Evolving on earth through the experiences of the third dimension brings forth very strong and evolved graduates
and thus earth has been the choice for many. Mind interprets individual consciousness and then manifests it outwardly in forms that resonate with the individual.
On earth, these forms will be natural and ordinary but will represent what constitutes completeness for the individual. An
example might be that the perfect job or partner may appear, but would not appear for someone who is retired or already happily
in a partnership. Do not confuse
the expressions of spiritual wholeness and completeness with the human sense of "good"--concepts of what an un-awakened society
deems desirable and attained through manipulation and struggle. When gifts of spirit appear, "All ribbons are beautifully
tied" and nothing is required to make it so. All students of truth experience times in which they do not feel very spiritual or complete. Do not get discouraged
by this, for feeling spiritual is not an indicator of your attained state of consciousness. Often those in some frenzy of
religious fervor are not having a spiritual experience but a very third dimensional and ego driven one. Evolution is about
seeing beyond common third dimensional feelings and thoughts, refusing to give them power, and living out from the highest
sense of what you know, being in the world, but not of it. As you become aware that world struggles have no real power or
law to support them, you will find yourselves personally experiencing less and less of them. Energy draws like energy. This message is about being aware
of the temptation to live out from absolute truth before attaining that state of consciousness. In their enthusiasm for spiritual
growth, some students want to immediately integrate and live what they only intellectually understand. Enthusiasm is appropriate,
yet these dear ones quickly discover that the truth they may of read in a book doesn't work for them which leaves them feeling
that they have been duped or are failures not yet ready for spiritual study. Discouraged, some return to what they previously
believed but have outgrown. Others may choose to hold stubbornly to a truth believing that by doing so some outer appearance
will change, not realizing that their resistance to that "something" is actually empowering it, holding it in place. No one can manifest or live higher
than his attained state of consciousness. This is the secret key of forgiveness for self as well as others for all are doing
the best they know at a particular time. Even the murderer believes he is making the world better in some way. Evolution is work dear ones, until at a certain
point there is more truth in your consciousness than not, at which time life becomes much easier because truth begins to manifest
outwardly in whatever forms are needed--ideas, things, persons, etc. When faced with appearances of discord and in-harmony, center yourselves in the realization
that Source could never form Itself as "this" because Divine consciousness does not embody discord--there can be no discord
in One. That which I am witnessing is the manifestation of beliefs in separation and duality and therefore ILLUSION. Illusion
is how I am perceiving something, not in the something itself. THEN take what ever human footsteps may be necessary. Mother Teresa of India recognized that
every individual was a God being, but did not proceed to stand and shout; "This is all illusion." She fed the starving, bound
their wounds, and dealt with whatever immediate needs presented themselves while holding within a realization of truth. This is how you evolve into the wholeness
and completeness of your true self while living on earth having human experiences. Resist nothing. This does not mean you
must like and accept everything or that you cannot work to change something, but before taking action look with eyes of spiritual
understanding. When you do this, the spiritual fruitage may appear as a solution to the problem Send Light often to those countries and people you are guided
to and know that it is the Light exposing the dark, bringing to the surface long hidden dense energies. Living up to your highest sense of truth
is all that is required and more is given as you do so. All are complete and whole, but lifetimes lived in third dimensional
energy caused most to forget this. As creator beings, you then began to ignorantly create a world of duality and separation. Evolution is simply the journey of
re-remembering who and what you are. We are the Arcturian Group 11/9/14 Posted: 08 Nov 2014 10:00 PM PST
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