True-Love
The Love of your Life Just a few minutes before some one sent an E-Mail captioned 'True Love Means...'. There are some pictures of kissing couples and some phrases to define the divine love. I started thinking- Can love be defined? Love is such a wonderful feeling and it is universal. No culture or no country has managed to draw barriers to this feeling. If there is a single powerful feeling that cuts across all types of barriers including economic barrier, language barrier, religious barrier, cultural barrier or even the distance barrier, then it should be love. Those who have experienced this feeling will know its intensity and how it can change us and everything around us. For some of us finding the love of our life happens naturally without much effort whereas for others it does not happen in such a natural way. We need to search for our love. Love is also very complex and we do not know the how, when, why factors of this feeling. Many people feel and argue strongly that we cannot search for our love, it has to just happen to us. We cannot go searching for our love. We meet so many people and we do not feel the same way with everyone. There are some special people that come and go in our life. If the chemistry between two people is right they will indeed find each other's company highly desirable. Love goes beyond physical appearances and all our reasoning. So if you are searching for your love then you should know that what you may find as your love may not be the real love of your life. Because when you are voluntarily searching you will be using a certain set of criteria such as good looks, attractive eyes, slim body, handsome face, good job etc. These are not the parameters by which love has to be judged. True love is beyond all these. So beware of searching for your love; all that you can do is to just wait for your love and not search for your love. When you meet the right person, you will know that it is he or she that is the love of your life. At times, you may consider that you have found the love of your life whereas the other person to whom you propose may not feel the same way about you. We have seen and heard hundreds of stories like these. Sometimes if you pursue for long enough the other person may start developing the chemistry towards you. We have also heard of such stories as well. However, in some situations the other person may never develop any special feelings towards you. In such a situation, it is best to move on with our life. We cannot force love; we will indeed be heart broken but life has to go on. You will be able to find some one again in your life who will reciprocate the same feelings towards you. So it is best to allow yourself some time to get over your depression by engaging in positive activities and start your life afresh. In such situations, learning a new skill or moving to a new place will help you forget the past...
