Showdown At The Not OK Coral

I was in the state between wakefulness and sleep. I was groggily thinking about my sick cat and needing to get up to meditate for the Angel Messages. As I was in this in between state, I felt a feather light touch on my left side, I turned thinking it was my cat, but “no one” was there. I felt another touch. The air around me felt different, as if the very texture of it had been changed. It felt as if it had a presence, an aliveness. I felt another touch near the one I had just experienced, and then one on my head. I experienced being engulfed in energy. The air around me pulsed. I was in the presence of an Angel. I felt incredible. I wanted to stay in this feeling forever. I felt a “Oneness” and “Communion” with the Angel. The Angel wanted me to communicate this feeling to others in my message today. It is so hard to describe, I don’t feel I do it justice. They can provide comfort and peacefulness.

I have felt this feeling of Communion with the Angels and God off and on throughout my life. It is why I know there is a God/Creator/All That Is. There is such a feeling of knowingness when in immersed in their presence, but often I cannot remember what I know afterwards. I feel I retain only a small portion of the communication. Being engulfed in the presence of the Angel, I remember and know that we are blessed, that we are divinely loved, and we are never alone even though we may feel that way at times. May the Blessings of God/Creator/All That Is surround you, engulf you, and flow through you, and bless your heart.

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Everyone seems to be getting lessons in dealing with people who seem to not only disregard their needs but who do the exact opposite. What do you do with someone who appears to deliberately oppose your wishes, stand in your way and block your efforts? Their behavior is not OK and they force you into a corner. Do you come out fighting or walk away? And how do you decide what is not OK and what to do after that?

Any time we are faced with a situation where someone is not giving us what we want the answer to all of our questions lies within us. That person has so much wonderful, enlightening information for us that we can understand once we move away from the 'this is not OK' position. Sure, their behavior may be wrong but why did we choose that experience with them and what do we have to learn from it?

I have found, in many years of giving spiritual counseling, that our lessons in power are always presented in ways that make us feel powerless. What we do in that moment determines whether our next step is reconnecting to our power or holding our ground and demanding that the other person do what we want them to do. While we would like to have a more moderate outcome, where we get out needs met and the other person sees the value in that, it isn't always possible. And the longer we stay in that situation the more challenging it is for us. Our showdown then becomes a standoff, then we are standing still, further entrenched in our demands and blind to any other outcome.

While we may think that the other person is just being stubborn, they are giving us valuable information and the first question we can ask is why we are making that particular demand of them. And there is part of our answer because we generally choose the person who will not or cannot give us what we want (remember the lessons in power). Here's an example:

A client had been abandoned by her mother at an early age and raised by her kind and loving father. But all of her life she wanted to reconnect with her mother and give her an opportunity to be the mother she wanted her to be (and thought she could be). She thought that if she opened her heart, her mother would apologize for a leaving her and give her the love she wanted. So she pursued her mother, who continued to disappoint her. No matter what she did, she never got what she wanted from her. And the mother took advantage of her daughter's kindness and generosity and used them to manipulate her. When the mother was dying she turned to her daughter for comfort and support, which she willingly gave, thinking that this would be their time to reconnect. But that didn't happen and the mother died.

The daughter still grieves her mother and her inability to reconnect with her. She doesn't see anything wrong with how she was taken advantage of by her mother and moreover, regrets that she couldn't do more for her. But the really destructive part of this is that even though she was raised by a loving father, has a loving family and a happy home life, she spends time every day feeling that she did not have enough time with her mother because if she did, she could have changed her and gotten the love she wanted.

When we got to the core of this issue, which was for her to learn to value herself, she had to acknowledge that she was asking something of her mother that she would never receive from her, even though her behavior was not OK. Her mother did not have the ability to give her what she wanted and was never going to do that . The lesson in power was to acknowledge that her mother chose her actions in spite of her daughter, not because of her, and that nothing she did was ever going to change that. What was her lesson in this?

By grieving this situation she was ignoring the wonderful things that she had in her life, which included everything she had always wanted, a loving husband, beautiful children, a nice home, many friends and the support of her community. Were they less valuable to her because they didn't come from her mother? Was she so firmly in her standoff position that just because her mother did not give her what she wanted, she could not see the value in the blessings she had in her life? And when I asked her 'does it really matter where it comes from' she realized that she had discounted all of the good in her life because she had not gotten what she wanted from her mother.

* To accept them as they are and decide whether we want them in our life or disconnect
* To become a victim in this story and martyr ourselves so they will give us what we want
* To refuse to accept their behavior and sabotage ourselves because we feel so powerless
* To understand the lesson in power and learn from it so we can be free of it.

Without understanding the lesson, our showdown becomes a standoff and then we are standing still. Eventually we will learn that we cannot force anyone into giving us what we want because if they are not already giving it to us, they do not have it to give in this moment. Everyone gives from what they have and they usually give all they have. There is no hidden reservoir that they can draw from, what they are giving you is the limit to what they have for you. And sometimes (often) this is a karmic cycle that you have with them and within the specific energetic vibrations of your relationship, they may treat you differently than others. They may not be nice to you but be sugary sweet to everyone else. You can feel victimized or mistreated or you can ask what you need to learn from them so you can engage in more fulfilling, self affirming relationships.

Whose behavior is not OK with you and are you going to choose between a showdown, standoff or learn acceptance so you can walk away? These are your choices in these difficult situations and they are such a powerful learning tool for you. As you look at that person, remember they are giving you all they have to give to you and then choose what you will do to give yourself the gifts of love, fulfillment, joy, peace and abundance.

Stay calm, focused, detached and aware and remember your thoughts are creating every moment of your life. Think the best ones.

As you ponder this and the other things that are happening at this time remember to:

Accept all gifts of understanding with gratitude and use them to apply forgiveness, release and healing to every situation.

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All of you are starved for touch. All of you want to be touched. That is why you give the hugs. Each one of you is free to reach out and touch each other, to be in communion, that common union with each other; to love; to hug; to caress. Do not be afraid to caress: man to man, woman to woman, it is okay. Society says that you must not touch. Society be damned!

You have come to a glorious Horizon. You didn’t do it alone. You did not know where each step would take you, but Someone did. I did. I watched out for you, and I am watching out for you now. I have the whole Universe in My heart and at the tip of My fingers. I am like the mother bird who takes her baby birds out of the nest so they will learn to fly. They will learn to soar.

Ultimately, your life on Earth is all story. It is a tale once told or told again, and yet it is story. It is a whopping good story, would you agree? Yes, your story is filled with twists and turns, but that’s what good stories are filled with. Nevertheless, your story is more than the spinning of a wheel.

You do not know what is going to happen next. Your life on Earth is a page-turner. What you can know is that your life has, in truth, a happy ending. Well, a happy non-ending. A happy continuation. A sequel that keeps getting better and better. It is quite a series, the book of your life. It is endless. Of course, it is, for the book of your life is written in Eternity where there is no beginning and no end. Your life is a blip on the surface of Eternity. Eternity is well-established. It is no fly-by-night, but your story is.

SuperGod always has you in sight. SuperGod is always mindful of you. I hold you by the hand at every twist and turn. It may not seem like that to you because We have different visions, you and I. I know you cannot come to harm. You think you can. You wish I would come down from the sky and whisk you off in My arms to a place of safety. There is no unsafe place. You are already in My arms. Nothing can happen but that you are in My arms of love. This is a very safe place, indeed. In My arms is as safe as safe can be. In My arms is beyond safe, you understand, for there is no unsafe. You are established in My arms. Whatever it may seem like to you in the relative world, you are, nevertheless, established in My arms. You already know that what seems is not always so. And what seems not may be what is very true.

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Greetings Beloved Family, it is I, Sananda, and I come to you on wings of love and trust and joy, great joy. It is sounding throughout the heavens, picture it, feel it, hear it. And that is truth about miracles, it is the same truth that I inspired and the messages I brought through in that which you know as The Course in Miracles – that is truth uncorrupted, not as was the Bible (corrupted). They are my words in that book, and they are as true now as when I gave the Course but a few years ago in your time. And yes, miracles are what we are creating, Beloved Ones, miracles of love and peace on Earth, and joy to the world. And of course, the greatest miracle of all time is about to take place and that is the ascension of planet Earth – coming home. And as Ashtar has said, your places are there waiting for you, and in truth there’s part of you that is already there, if you under stand about existing in other dimensions.

And so we are here gathered in this family, yes, to celebrate the coming of even more truth to planet Earth. And to thank with gratitude in our hearts, and emanating out on wings of love, to all of those who participated in what you call the election process in this country of the United States. This election process has paved the way for the world to come into peace, to come into love, to come into recognition, that even as you do it unto others so also you do it unto yourself. Those, by the way, were true words, they got it right that time.

So let us come together, Beloved Ones, and let us shine forth the truth. And it is for all of us to know that together we are miracles. We are love, the highest miracles possible, energy wise. And we have that love to send out to the world and we shall do that together by joining together. All that is necessary for us to be successful, is that we believe and that we trust that we are indeed the creators, the activators and the senders forth of miracles.

So let’s just all pause together, let us stand together in a circle of love, a circle of light, and let us, before we join hands, wave to all of our family in our circle and hug and say, "I’m so glad you’re here standing with me now in this courageous standing-tall in the light of love."

And now let us join our hands and our hearts and feel the energy of One going around, spiraling through this circle we have made of ourselves and each other, and all of the Beloved Ones from the higher dimensions, as you call it: the Angels, the kingdom of the Elementals, the Ascended Ones, the Brotherhood/Sisterhood of the Masters, and of course the Mentors here.

And let us just recognize that we are all together, equally loved and equally loving of each other. And let us start to feel the empowerment as this light spirals through and let it stop right above your crown and let it spiral down through your crown all the way down through your chakras which are perfectly aligned and beautifully opened and spinning, and the lights are most radiant indeed. And let the light continue down though your very feet activating all of your chakras along the way – those in your arms, your legs and your feet. And now let this light continue down so that Mother Gaia herself and all of her kingdoms are now joined with all of us in this circle. All the world is now joined because we have created the miracle of One. Together we stand, together we open to receive even more love from the universe, even more welcome on our ascension paths, even more truth of the love and the One ness we are.

And now notice, if you will, that upon these high waves of energy a crystalline bowl appears in front of you. Look into that bowl and see what is there for you. Beautiful, beautiful shining crystals, and they have names. And you, yourselves, can feel the vibrations of these names, but let me assure you, on the very top is Trust; here is Belief; here is Maker of all Miracles; here is One; here is Joy; and of course the entire bowl is made of one big crystal called Love.

These are for you, Beloved Ones, these are your gifts because you have called them forth. Accept them and notice that as you reach out with one of your hands to touch this bowl, and to bring it closer to you, notice that it compacts so that you can contain it in the one hand, as big as it is. And now just take it right on into your energy fields, right on into your heart, and notice that your heart beats even stronger with all of your gifts.

And notice that Courage, Courage to speak, Courage to stand forward as a bringer of truth, Courage to be all that you came here to be, to shine your light without reservation, without hesitation, without any holding back, there it is lightening up and brightening up your Beloved hearts even more. Stop and savor these gifts and see some there and name them for yourself, these gifts.

These are miracles of your creation, Beloved Ones, these are what you’re calling forth to come into your own hearts, these are your own gifts of miracles. Take them into your being fully, do not leave anything behind. Take the entire crystalline bowl of love that holds these gifts so lovingly and bring it right on into your heart. And now feel the oneness going out and emanating through the circle and out from the circle.

All of this energizing of your hearts, Beloved Ones, all of this creation of miracles, this visioning, this envisioning of miracles - is now going forth to everyone because everyone is here; everyone is here now. Everyone in the entire world population is here to receive the sharing of these miraculous gifts that you give. And as these gifts find their way to all of the One that we all are, notice how the feelings move up even higher in vibration. There is no more separation. We are seamless! And this is a miracle whose time has come on Planet Earth – Oneness. And within all of this one heart, one mind, one consciousness, all is love and all is peace. It is no longer a dream, it is a reality and the truth!

And let those who have been promoting wars and telling lies be touched. They are entitled to receive these gifts as much as any lightworker. Let them receive if they choose to do so. And if they choose not to take us into their consciousness let them know that the gifts are there for them whenever they choose. There is no discrimination anymore, there is only one heart. There is no more plotting of secret agendas and manipulations and maneuvering, there is one mind. There is no more lack anywhere, there is one consciousness. This, Beloveds, is the oneness which we are creating now and literally planting the seeds of oneness all over planet Earth, below, on and above. And we are not finished because we are now sending it out through the solar system and the galaxy, and indeed, the universe beyond.

So be joyful, Beloved Ones, and enjoy this oneness, this coming together. Peace is ours because we have created it so; joy is ours because we have created it so; and love, universal, is ours because we have believed that we could create it so. Blessings, Beloved family, blessings to all.

Now feel the presence of my mother. She has roses for all. The roses are soft and velvety, there are no thorns to be found anywhere on their stems. They are colors of the crystals, and indeed, they sparkle as such. But smell them, they are roses indeed. And my mother represents the Kumara Family and offers them to you now to add to your creations of miracles in your hearts, and in your fields of energy, that the entire universe will know that you have been here, that you have participated in this creation for the entire planet and the universe beyond. And that the roses of love are the thanks of the universe to you for being here in this grand company of miracle makers; of miracle givers; of Family in the light of love. And so it is now and evermore. And so it is done.

I’m here. I’m going tp speak real softly but I’m just purring all over. Well done, Beloved Family, well done! And speaking as a rather knowledgeable healer I just want to say the world thanks you. Because what you have done here has been most healing, it has been all that Beloved Sananda has said and more. You have reached the hearts of all, and you have helped to turn, even more, the planet in the direction of One. Oh yes, this has been needed so that we could tell the world that we are all here and it has been needed so that the world could have the healing that NESARA brings. It’s already a done deal.

So we’re purring right along. We’re celebrating with you, and we’re saying keep going, keep going, keep going, keep rolling along, nothing will stop what is ordained because you, Beloved Ones, have moved it so far along the track that it has but a short distance to the finish line and it’s rolling ahead at warp speed. So, if you want to take a moment to get your dancing shoes on that will be fine. I already have mine on, I come prepared. Although I have to say they don’t have any toes in them because I’ve had a rather beautiful job done on my toenails, you can call them claws if you want to, but I do look especially sparkly tonight. So let’s celebrate, the party has begun because you came! And so it is. Namaste.

Namaste,

Susan

I am a facilitator for the loving messages of Ashtar and those who accompany him at our Ashtar on the Road gatherings. Thank you for taking this time to get acquainted with me and with my mission as a voice for Ashtar!

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