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Rebirth Or Rebound ? By Jennifer Hoffman

So often we leave one situation only to find ourselves in another one that is exactly the same. Why do we do that? Because we try to fix what we see as our failures by fixing the other person or setting up a similar scenario, hoping that we will do things differently the second time around. But sometimes the second time becomes a third, fourth and so on and we find ourselves in perpetual rebound. What we are trying to do is complete a cycle so we can be re-born but that cannot be accomplished unless we shift our own energy.

The rebound process is best described in relationships, when we leave one and immediately go into another one, thinking that the new person is different. But as we find out, this new relationship is very similar to our previous one. How can we find another person who is just like the one we said we would never go back to? Unless we shift our energy, we are attracting only energies that will help us complete our healing cycle. Did we change? If not then our cycle is not complete and there is additional healing to be done.

To understand why we rebound we must look at the ego, which always thinks it's right. And the ego never wants to admit defeat so it will help us re-create the past so we can 'get it right' the next time. If we shift our energy we release the connections to the ego and set new energetic boundaries, we cannot rebound because we are no longer at that vibration. Can we resist the temptation to try one more time, just in case we can get it right on the next try?

Re-birth is confirmation of our spiritual healing and rebounding is how the ego forces its will on us. To avoid rebound we can take the word 'failure' out of our vocabulary. There is no failure as everything that 'doesn't work' wasn't meant to. Can we accept the blessings of failures as signs that our internal guidance system is working on our behalf and removing those things that do not serve our highest potential? We rebound when we think that there is something wrong with us and that is never true. Re-birth is a shift in our energetic core and a sign that we can integrate the healing we have done and create fulfillment, joy, peace and love for ourselves.

Copyright ©2010 by Jennifer Hoffman and Enlightening Life OmniMedia, Inc. This material is protected by US and international copyright now and may be distributed freely in its entirety as long as the author’s name and website, www.urielheals.com are included.