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You’re in Uncharted Emotional Territory

Posted: 06 Feb 2012 11:55 AM PST

Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you have experienced the loss of someone close to you or even part of your body. Following the loss, you probably allowed yourself the accepted brief respite and then expected your being to bounce back to “normal” full speed ahead.

Your current loss is deeper than has been true in the past. In truth, you are experiencing loss on so many levels that bereavement is almost a constant, but unacknowledged companion.

Perhaps a loved one transitioned. Perhaps your body required medical or personal attention. Perhaps you lost a job or ended a relationship. All of which have been part of life on earth for eons and all of which have an acceptable mourning format.

But none of you have experienced the loss or transition of your being that is now occurring.

Your mourning is much deeper than you can imagine. It goes beyond the loss of friendship or a loved one. It is the loss of yourself.

We have told you that you would add splinters to your being and thus become more whole than you were before the transition. And so you have. But as you have done so, the original you that you are familiar with has disappeared. You are a new entity. With that change comes a shift in your emotions and reactions to pain.

You are moving into or have moved into joy. So your emotions are painted a different color. And even though that thought is exciting, it is also a bit frightening. You no longer have a framework of how to react. That which used to make you angry, may make you laugh. That which used to make you sad may make you smile.

You are moving into uncharted emotional territory. Which is neither good nor bad - just different. And that is what you find so difficult. You no longer observe your being and its emotions with certainly. What was exciting yesterday might feel boring today…or the opposite.

Just as you are changing, so is everyone around you. Not everyone is changing at the same pace or in the same direction, but everyone is changing.

Some are finding the need to stand firmly in the Old Age. Others are looking for joy. And still others are just confused about how their life and being is shifting.

These words frighten many of you. Even though you are Lightworkers who requested the shift to joy, the reality may be more frightening than you imagined. You may find yourself smiling at something that used to make you cry and note that those around you are horrified at your reaction. Or you may feel sadness deeper than others and not comprehend why others do not feel the same.

It is one thing to contemplate change and quite another to immerse yourself in it. You are in the immersion stage. While some of those dear to you have decided not to change at all. Discordant vibrations are becoming more and more evident.

What are you to do? Do you ignore those who do not react or believe as you do? Do you try to “enlighten” them? Or do you stand on a soapbox and point out the error of their ways? That is your choice. But the moment you try to force anyone into your belief patterns is the moment you return to the Old Age.

That last thought is not to frighten you, merely to point out that freedom of choice has never been as important or evident as it is now.

Allow yourself freedom of choice. Perhaps you are horrified by some of your reactions. Are those reactions from your heart? Then they are right for you, even though those reactions are different from what society expects. Allow others to be who they are meant to be…and allow the same for yourself.

Force was an Old Age technique used to produce continuity and sameness. Those rules of force, those needs for sameness no longer apply. For each of you is shifting at a different pace and, sometimes, in different directions.

No one is right nor wrong. Just unique individuals finding their joy – as they move into the New Age. Or individuals finding more pain – if they opt to remain of the Old Age.

Your direction is no more correct than any other direction. Nor are you better or worse than others. Perhaps the person who remains in pain has issues they wish to clear in this lifetime. Group thought no longer applies.

Let us return to your process before we close. There are no longer right or wrong actions – only those actions that come from your heart, your inner-being.

But because you have added many new splinters to your being in the last few months, your inner-being is no more predictable than a new scientific concept lacking research.

You are no longer the you that you have been familiar with all these years. At the same time, you are still you because the old you is incorporated into the new you.

Think in terms of a cake batter to which you add nuts and chocolate chips. The cake remains a cake, but it is a different cake than was true before the additions. Will the cake taste better? Most definitely for those who love nuts and chocolate chips. But not for those who prefer a simple cake.

And so it is with you. You are adding so many vibrant flavors and colors that the old you is sparkling. But that sparkle also means you are different. Relish the difference. Embrace the difference. This is what you have dreamed of for eons.

As for those who prefer cake without sparkles, it remains a cake. A different cake – perhaps to you a boring cake – but a cake. And so it is. Amen. 

John

There are three modes of communication: in head to head communication you talk, in heart to heart communication you sing, and soul to soul communication happens in silence.
When you meet with people, often you communicate from head to head. When you are with nature, you start singing, you communicate with nature from your heart. Often when you are with people you keep talking, blabbering, and you keep the
 communication on the level of the head only. But when you are with nature, you start humming and your communication comes through the heart. And when you are with the guru, you go blank and forget all the questions. Then communication comes through the soul in silence.
When you meet with people, you like to remain in the head, you seldom sing with people (other than when it is organised). Your ego obstructs you from singing. Many do not feel comfortable singing with people. When you sing with people then you descend to the heart level or feeling level. Some feel comfortable just listening to music. Some feel comfortable singing only when they are alone. Some sing to draw attention or to charm others. Some only want to join in when all
 the others are singing. All this singing comes from ego.
Bhajan means sharing, sharing from the deepest level of our existence. Bhajan is authentic sharing. If you could sing with people, then your ego shatters. Children can sing with people for they do not have ego. To sing with a stranger you have to be free of ego. Ego doesn't let you sing with a stranger. Head level is safe for the ego -heart level breaks the ego - soul level dissolves the ego. All communication gaps happen because of ego.
Exercise: when you are
 with people, rather then chatting just start singing and you can feel the shift of energy that is happening. If you want to have more fun, greet a stranger with a song.
- Sri Sri
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You Never Know, How & When ~ Sri Sri
You Never Know How and When The Existence will Start Using You for its Purpose.
You Never Know How and When You will be filled with Abundance..
And You will start Raining, Quenching the thirst of Many..
You Never Know How and When You will be Full of Fruits and Shade..
And Travellers will take Shelter and Food from You..
You Never Know How and When You will be Full with Love and Light..
And You will Start Spreading The Fragrance of Beauty to Everyone..
You Never Know How and When The Death will come And Make You Deathless.. And Life will start flowing out of You..
You Never Know, How & When…
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A Poem by H H Sri Sri Ravishankar