Hard Relationships


The Hard Relationships 
by Jennifer Hoffman
I have received many questions from you who are adult Indigos and Crystals (over the age of 40) about your relationships, asking why they can be so challenging. These include your romantic relationships, but also those with your friends, co-workers, family and others in your life. Your question is why these can be so hard and what are you doing wrong-why did you choose the most dysfunctional family, the most challenging business partner, unreasonable boss, or turncoat friends?  There is an answer, read on. 
As an Indigo you came to change the world and the people in it. It doesn't matter if you are 9 or 90, this is the Indigo mission. And you do it by taking the world on, sometimes in ways that create a lot of pain and frustration for you because you choose the most difficult energies to work with. You want people to see what is wrong with what they're doing by allowing them to do it to and with you. It's your hope that they will see their mistakes and change, and that doesn't often happen. 
As a Crystal you are here to bring light to the world and to show others the way of love, caring and sharing. You do this by being the light in every relationship and often choose those that need the most light. But you do not always consider whether the people are ready for or want light in their lives. And this is where your challenge appears, as you give light to those who reject you, not protecting yourself by managing your energy and ensuring that you do not give too much to others. 
Most of the first generations of Indigos and Crystals carry both energies and can draw on these resources to manage their missions. Indigos can learn to give more from love and detachment, both Crystal strengths, instead of using force. Crystals can learn to be more guarded in the way they give their energy and be less willing to tolerate others' behavior, both Indigo traits. Both of these energies choose hard relationships because they know that it is in dealing with these that they are able to affect the larger range of energies that represent the work they came to do. And it is by drawing on the other energetic aspects of energies available to them that they will make their work easier.
Article Copyright 2010 by Jennifer Hoffman. All rights reserved.
About the author
Jennifer Hoffman is an intuitive, spiritual healer, mentor, teacher and author. She also channels the energy of the Archangel Uriel.  Jennifer has helped many people through the Shift through her unique insights and counsel, facilitating their healing journey. Jennifer is the founder of www.urielheals.com, an on-line spiritual healing and growth center and dedicated to the messages and teachings of Archangel Uriel.  Information about Jennifer's books, on-line seminars and services is available at her websites, or email healing@urielheals.com for information.   * Enlightening Life  www.enlighteninglife.com  *  email: Support@enlighteninglife.com *    

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