|LAKE OF MENTEITH. mp3
What Sri Sri said today :‘Your faith, your
love, your beauty, your truth is a 100 times more powerful than the doubt’
26th December 2009
Thank you very much for all I have received from you till today. Even I know you are available on an emergency basis, twenty
four hours. I am ashamed to ask you a help. When someone of your family passed and relationship between you and this person
was not clear, what can you do to help the process to help that person live peacefully and also to be peaceful yourself? Thank
Sri Sri: Whenever you have to console a bereaved family, keep silent! Too many words does not make any sense
there or have any meaning. Someone is in grief, you just be with them, with peace in your heart. They will absorb the peace,
they will bask in your peace. They will absorb your peace - they will feel comfortable, happy. So when you are peaceful, you
radiate it. They will absorb the peace and they would feel that inner calm, inner peace. So don't have to say, ‘Oh poor
thing! This thing has happened with you. Oh, it shouldn't have happened.’ Talking all that type of pity or sympathy
is not going to help either you or them. So just be with them and say, ‘God will give you strength’. Just give
that to overcome this situation. This is the only thing that you should do. ‘God will give you strength’ or the
person who departed, take their name and say, ‘That person will give you strength to go over this tough time, this difficult
These one or two words are good enough. Don't talk too much but just be with them. Few minutes- you being
with them will help them. OK?
Q. Dear Guruji, how can we teach the world that there is abundance of food, love for everyone?
We don't need to fear lack, and therefore be greedy?
Sri Sri: We have to spread spirituality. We have to make people realize
the importance of spirituality. They will have to meditate. Only through meditation would they ever feel the inner richness,
inner abundance. Whatever you feel inside, that’s what you project outside. If you have fear inside, you will project
it outside. You feel lack inside, and you will feel lack everywhere. So, that abundance has to arise from within. For that,
one has to do meditation course like this, no?
Q. Dear Guruji, despite being on the path for almost six years now, we
didn't worry about what the results would be later. You know, when we started, so many people ridiculed us and we didn’t
mind any of those humiliations. None of those humiliations stopped us from working and reaching out to people. We keep doing
it, because we know what we are doing is good and it’s not for our sake that we are doing it, we are doing it for the
simple fact that it brings benefit to people. If not today, tomorrow they will understand, recognize it. Right? So you need
not be a football of others’ opinion. As long as we know that we need to continue doing this and it helps people, it
makes our life worth living. So we continue doing this.
Q. Dear Guruji, what can you do when you doubt the Master? How
to overcome the doubt? How to prevent it from happening?
Sri Sri: You know, your doubt is always about something that
is good. You only doubt the honest, you never doubt the dishonest. You doubt happiness, you never doubt depression. If you
are depressed and someone asks you, ‘Are you depressed?’ Then you are very sure, you don't say, ‘Well, I
am not very sure!’ With happiness you say that, ‘Well, I am not sure whether I am happy or not.’ So we doubt
love. Someone says, ‘I love you so much’, you say, ‘Really?’ If someone says, ‘I hate you’,
you never ask, ‘Really?’ You doubt! So our doubt is always about something that is positive. And doubts - they
come and they go. Doubt more. I won’t say, don't doubt. Doubt as much as you can. See I tell you, it will fall away
by itself. It cannot stand. So doubt more. A Master only encourages the student to doubt more. He will not clear the doubts.
In fact, the job of the master is to create more doubt so that you can bake well and become
really solid. Because if not
today, ten year later you may get the doubt, better get the doubt right away! Get as much as you can. Once they come, they
don't come back again. Same doubts don't arise twice. Different doubts keep coming and when they come, don’t push them
under the carpet. Don’t shelve it under, go with it. And a time comes when you become solid. It only makes you stronger,
powerful, focused and responsible. I would say, good! Doubts have come about the Master, let them come. Hmm? Cook with them.
They are fuel by which the mind can really cook. Hmm! And you will see that you are much stronger than your doubt! Your faith,
your love, your beauty, your truth is a hundred times more powerful than the doubt. The faith is like the sun, the doubt is
like a cloud. No amount of clouds can cover the sun for long. They just come and they disappear. Yes, there are some cloudy
days and it can be there, let it be. The sun will eventually shine.
Q. Beloved Guruji, I have a new job that gives me
economic and social stability, it’s good. On the other side, it is based on lies and on taking advantage of peoples'
faith. The environment is polluted and colleagues poison me with depression and dishonesty. Still I work hundred percent and
I give a good example. But I feel this situation is not good for me. What do you suggest me to do?
Sri Sri: In a
situation like that consider yourself like an oasis in the dessert. Just imagine even the oasis disappears from the dessert,
how will people survive? So, your being there has a good influence on the people and keep influencing and see if you can create
even one two, three or four people like you in the same work environment. It can change. You have the power to change your
situation. On request from people like you who are in the corporate business environment, we tailored our course and changed
its jargon, its processes to fit to the corporate world. We call this the APEX course. Today the World Bank and many other
institutions are taking it and they are benefiting greatly by this. Yes? So, do it!
Q. Dear Guruji, I feel that my coming
to you now has become an ego issue. I come to you to see what you will say to me or to get attention from you and not because
I feel deep love and gratitude. I would like to feel the true deep love and gratitude like I have been before. I want to serve
out of love and not out of feeling that this is what I am expected to do.
Sri Sri: You know, feelings are like clouds.
They are like the waves on the surface of the ocean. They arise, they come and they go. They change. We shouldn’t be
bent too much by our feelings. Do you see what I am saying? Life moves with commitment, not just feelings. And love is a gift.
You can't force anyone to feel love. Your wanting to feel love becomes a hindrance to feel love. Just relax. I have spoken
about this in the Bhakti sutras. When you want love, that want itself is turning or delaying love from manifesting. So all
that you need to do is to let go and relax. You will see your nature is love. Love is always there. It will manifest when
it should. Like the sun is always there but it comes at its own time. Yes? The sun doesn’t come up all the time though
it is there twenty four hours. But it is in different places. In the same way, all the beautiful feelings in your life are
there with you all the time. You can’t forcefully manifest
them. They will manifest at different times in life. And
that’s why be more relaxed and take them as they come. Yes?
Q. Sometimes I get very angry. It is like something
gets inside me. How can I get rid of this inner demon?
Sri Sri: I tell you, there is no demon inside. No! If anybody tells
you, don’t listen to them. Just walk away. There is no demon inside you. Got it? You are pure light. You are born of
light. You are light. All that you need to do is wake up, little more silence, little more meditation and observe the sensations.
Start observing the sensations in the body, in the mind. Yes? And such an outburst of anger comes and then subsides. It will
take little time so that it doesn't arise at all. The more we are in the state of dispassion or centeredness, lesser is the
anger. Behind the anger is a desire for perfection. Wanting perfection makes you angry. Want brings anger in us. So when you
keep observing, the want dissolves. You loosen up from inside. You start blossoming from inside. You will see, you will get
very few opportunities where you have to get upset. It is ok to get upset once in a while, doesn't matter.
Q. I want to
become a therapist but since I have become spiritual, I have come to realize that western psychology is not everything. How
can I combine western and eastern psychology?
Sri Sri: Yes, sure! You must! Western psychology gives certain ideas about
behavioral patterns, certain impressions and effects of certain chemicals in the mind. Whereas eastern psychology studies
the nature of consciousness, studies consciousness itself! So it will be very useful that you would like to combine the both.
You study eastern and then you study western so that you can explain to the west what the east says. Because the eastern psychology
or knowledge of consciousness is time tested, it’s age old. Ten thousand years, this has been practiced. Hmmm? And it
should be interesting. If you take one aspect, say suppose love and examine how love is viewed in both eastern and western
psychology. It’s very interesting. Hmmmm?
Q. Dear Guruji, how old are the Vedas? Do we have all the Vedas now? I
hear we may have lost some knowledge?
Sri Sri: You are correct! There are four main Vedas. Vedas means a collection of
poems- verses heard by Rishis, sages when they went deep in meditation. When someone went deep in meditation, they heard something
and whatever they heard, they started telling their students, disciples. So these were truths which were derived or heard
and downloaded from the cosmic consciousness. They had a way to download it in those days. The downloading is - close your
eyes, meditate and what you notice, what you see - you click and then you download it. Surfing! Surfing around and downloading.
So Vedas were downloaded like that. More than one thousand sages or those who are called Rishis - Rishi means the one who
saw or one who heard. They saw it, they heard it and they wrote them. They didn't write themselves, they recited and told
their students and they recited and so for a long time it was just passed on from one to another - verbally, vocally. That’s
why they are
called Shrutis. Originally these Vedas were divided into four. Originally the Rigveda had so many- twenty
one different branches but today only three are available. Similarly, Yajurveda has some two hundred and eleven branches,
but today only few - five or six - are available. Similarly, Samveda – thousand different Samvedic hymns, branches were
there. Today only three branches are there. Rest is all lost. During the medieval times in India, when there was so much repeated
aggression, those Vedas were all lost.
Q. Which Veda has medical knowledge?
Sri Sri: It is called the Ayurveda. It
is the subordinate Veda of the main four Vedas. So both, the Atharvaveda and Rigveda - the first and last Vedas have a connection
to Ayurveda. So all the Ayurveda stories are so very, very beautiful. It’s said that one thousand Rishis were sitting
and meditating. And a Rishi named Bharadwaja told them, ‘You keep awake. We are going into deep trance, meditation and
we are going to say just what we see. But there should be somebody to note down, write everything down’. They told once
person, ‘You don't meditate. You sit, watch and note down everything’. And that is how Maharshi Bharadwaja noted
down, wrote down in a forest when thousands of the Rishis meditated together and they were downloading it and then they were
saying it. Bharadwaja went from one to another, to each person and started noting them down and that is how the Ayurveda books
were written. So even today, after so many thousands of years, it
holds good. It is a Materia Medica - which herb is for
which part of the body and what functions, what are the combinations, what one should do and what one should not. Everything
about health is written. When the British ruled India and the man who was in charge of India, the British gentleman, wrote
to Queen Victoria of England saying, ‘You know, people should come and learn plastic surgery over here. How people can
fix your nose, your skin, your legs,’ he said. It’s amazing that when knowledge was zero or nothing in England,
it was so advanced in India. Lord Macaulay said in the parliament, that if you want to rule this country (India), first you
must destroy the spirituality. Much has been written about Lord Macaulay's statement. He said, ‘I traveled the length
and breadth of India and I did not see one beggar, one poor man. And people know science and medical things so well. 88000
medical institutions were there only in the south of
India.’ He said, if you want to rule this country, you must
stop this. So they systematically closed down the medical institutions, Sanskrit colleges so that people could no longer read
the books. You know, when all your books are in Sanskrit and they shut down all the Sanskrit schools by rule, your next generation
gets no access to the knowledge and that is what exactly happened in India. There is a whole presentation about Lord Macaulay's
vision that they could rule India only by doing this. Anyway, that is all history. What I am saying is that Ayurveda is still
very potent knowledge- it’s a science even today. Hmmm? But many books are missing. Many were burnt down. India had
a very crazy king at one point of time, he was called Aurangzeb. He came to power by putting his own father in jail who was
the king then. And then he burnt big libraries in India like Nalanda. History says that the books in Nalanda library burned
for six months. He called
all the scholars and he told them, ‘What is in your library?’ They said, ‘A
lot of knowledge.’ He was very fanatic. He took the Quran and asked, ‘Do you agree that this book has all the
knowledge that is there in the library?’ They said, ‘Yes’. He said, ‘Then what is the use of having
a library and so many books? Burn them down. Then one of them said, ‘No. There is other knowledge that is not in this
book.’ Then Aurangzeb said, ‘Then they shouldn't exist. Anything which is not in this book shouldn't exist anywhere,
it is not correct. It is not God’s! Burn them down. Thousands of years ago, philosophy of the Buddhists, Hindus, Jains,
Sikh were available; medical, archeology, astronomy, metallurgy, engineering, science - all these books - were available.
They were all burnt down. So whatever people could take overnight and memorize it, those things remained and it continued.
So these are all past histories.
Q. In Muslim countries we have some resistance even with some new teachers. One of them
read on the internet that the translation of the word Sohum is ‘I am god.’ It is not ok with Islam. Can you explain
what it is meant and what is the intention by Sohum?
Sri Sri: Sohum is the natural sound of breath. When you breath out
the hum is there. Sohum is the natural sound. If you read it the other way round, it is Humsa. Humsa is that which uplifts,
that which floats, that which discriminates. That consciousness which discriminates right from wrong, from the permanent to
impermanent, from the beautiful to ugly - discrimination. Sohum does not mean ‘I am God’, it is ‘I am that’.
What is the ‘that’? ‘That’ could be love, ‘that’ is truth, ‘that’ is love,
‘that’ is the beautiful space, ‘that’ is what I really am! First I think I am just the thoughts, the
emotions, the mind, but the true realization, I am not the thought, I am not the body, but I am that! What is that? It is
the experience that is beyond words! That truth which is beyond comprehension! That beauty which is beyond any imagination.
That reality which you cannot totally catch. That love is what I am! And if love is God or
God is love and I am love then
I am God too! Jesus said love is God! And said, I am love! I am that, I am. This is there in the Bible also. I am that I am.
Thou art that! All this is there. But it is not the meaning that is important. What is important is the vibration of the sound.
The sound Sohum, has some definite vibrations in the cosmos and that helps our spirits to blossom and that is what is most
Q. Dearest Guruji, I sit here with you and after all that happened in my life in the past, today I know
it was worth going through it to live and experience what I feel today. Fullness, love, gratitude, excitement and inspiration.
All because of what you have given to this world. Eternally yours!
Q. Does the strength of the Guru lie in the fact that
he represents a symbolic father who helps to heal the wounds from the real father?
Sri Sri: The wounds need to be healed,
that is more important. Whatever relation you put, whatever attachment you put, it is secondary. See the world from a fresh
eye, from a fresh look. Anybody who has inflicted pain to you, know that they have done it because they have no knowledge.
They were deprived of this spiritual knowledge. That is why they were behaving that way. They were handcuffed, they were blindfolded,
they were dumbfounded and they acted the way they acted. They are victims themselves. See them from this angle, you will feel
compassion for them and you will feel grateful for what you have got in your life, ya?
Q. Please explain to me how
we are responsible for how we feel? For example when we see a beautiful girl, a thought appears and then pleasure comes to
me. But yesterday in the video, I understood it is the opposite. Why the desire appears only with beautiful girls? How do
we choose that?
Sri Sri: I think you forgot how you felt when you were five year old. When you were five, six, seven or
eight- year-old, it was not a beautiful girl who attracted you it was beautiful food that attracted you! I will tell you a
story. There were people of three generation- father, son and grandfather. They all went out for a holiday- vacation. So the
youngest of the family, the grand child was so excited, he got good food. And the adult, the father, was so attracted with
the beautiful girls at the camp. He said, ‘What a beautiful day! I saw so many beautiful girls here. I had great time!’
Now the grandfather's turn had come. The grandfather said, ‘It was such a relief here. So nice. We came out to
this holiday camp. I had such good bowel movement! I never had like that before! What a relief!’ He said, ‘You
both talk childishly. He talks about food, you talk about girls but in my age you will understand what the really happiness
is’. So when
someone is so old if they have a good bowel movement, that is great relief for them. They get good sleep,
that is heaven for them. So, wait for some more time and you will see what is more beautiful in life!
Q. Dearest Guruji,
I had a question in my mind when we were speaking about energy centers today, in the knowledge tape. I feel constant energy
in my second chakra but I don’t have any desires to do sex because I know it leaves me tired and dull. On the other
hand my creative energy has not manifested itself. I would like to use my creativity and write, sing, dance, etc. How will
it come to this point? Please show me a way. Give me ability to make my creative energy alive.
Sri Sri: Ya! Continue your
meditation. If a particular chakra has been used a lot then automatically energy goes there quite a bit. But it will keep
moving, definitely moving. You focus more on navel center and then dance, sing. Singing and dancing, that is all part of our
practices. You know, it uplifts you in more than one way.
Q. Dear Guruji, I can’t forget this guy. He is not good
for me but still I am in love with him. Even though I haven't seen him in ten months and I hardly know him. Can you explain?
Sri Sri: Wait till you find somebody else. Then you will forget all about that guy. Our mind is very strange. You know,
the greatest, real stranger to us is not somebody else but our own mind.
Q. Dear Guruji, only today I have fallen in love
with nine people. One cute Serbian, one beautiful Croatian, one irresistible Bulgarian, one very nice German, two gorgeous
Italians, and two delightful Russians and one really hot Indian. Clearly I can't make up my mind. Can you please help me?
Sri: I tell you the choice is too little for you. Go for more! Only nine? We have one ninety four countries in the planet!
Don't be in a hurry to choose right away. Go slow. You know? Good! We have come to rise in love and on the way, it doesn't
surprise me if you keep falling in love here and there. But don't be in a hurry to choose. Hundred and ninety two countries
in the United Nations, Right? “That which you cannot express is Love.
That which you cannot reject/renounce
That which you cannot avoid is the Truth.”
~ Sri Sri Ravishankar
Love is not an Emotion...Its
our Very Existence...