Addicted 2 Relation-ship

Isis' Message of the Day -
"The Supreme state is uncaused, independent, unrelated, undivided, uncomposed, unshakeable, unquestionable, unreachable by effort. Every possible definition is from memory and thoughts inapplicable. And yet this Supreme state is actual and therefore possible, realizable, attainable."  
~Nisargadatta Maharaj~

I AM ISIS a "Spiritual Warrior of the Light."
In my hand I hold the Sword of Truth.
I wish you Joy, Love & Peace,
~ Lady of the Light ~

Addicted to Relation-ship
by Jennifer Hoffman
The path of relationships is how we experience our healing journey because we heal ourselves through the mirror of our wounds, which is one way we connect to others. We have a wound to heal, we find someone with the same wound and with a 360 perspective of our wound in front of us, we can resolve and heal our issues. That's the way it is supposed to work but it usually doesn't. Instead, we think there is something wrong with the other person, we try to heal them and then go from one wounded relationship to the next, wondering why we can't find someone who is healed and whole or thinking that there is no love in the world for us. 
This becomes a relationship addiction as we go from one relationship to another, thinking each one holds the answer to our questions and believing that we have to heal the world instead of healing ourselves. Relationships are an exercise in self healing and we can be complete with one relationship or twenty because each one will serve our healing purpose until we complete that aspect of our journey. What helps us go through this process more easily is to remember that life happens from the inside out-if it's going on around us, it came from within us. Each relation-ship is a mirror of our relationship with ourselves, a view into what we can transform to meet our own needs. The funny thing about that is once we no are no longer 'needy' our needs are always met. 
How much easier our journey would be if we could ask two questions of every situation:  1. How does this serve my healing purpose, and 2. What do I need to change in my vibration, thinking, beliefs and energy to end this level of connection now? Ending a connection does not always mean writing that person out of your life, although it can. The fact is we always connect with someone through our lowest vibrations and our healing purpose, so the faster we resolve that the more quickly we can connect at another level once the healing is complete.
It's easy to go from one relationship to the next and to follow that addiction path because each one confirms our wounds to us. And that can't change until we do. In a way it's a circular argument-you go first, no you go, no you go, etc. Who is first to start the healing? The one who recognizes the need for it. Then the rest falls into place and we will then find someone who gives  us what we need because we no longer need it. Everything we seek is already within us, waiting for us to connect to it. And as we switch our inner light back on, the dark corners of our healing path are brilliantly illuminated and we can complete our healing cycles and step into the peace, joy and love of our heaven on earth.
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